God will do it every time! (“It” can be anything) I haven’t really had closure regarding my divorce until recently. I was speaking to my ex-husband face to face in order to finalize some divorce paperwork and I was already prayed up so that I could stay near the cross during the interaction. I felt in my spirit to ask how he felt about the situation and going through the divorce and what he said floored me, he said “The decision was made for me, when you left.” When I tell you that my mind went blank, it was nothing there. During the conversation he began to state some of the things that I did wrong during our marriage. Not once did he apologize for inappropriately messing other females, coming home at all times of the night when it wasn’t a workday, making me feel less than or even giving me an STD. No apology or a “my bad” was issued ……..
& I am good, my pressure was a little up but I am good.
How can I be good with someone pointing the finger at me?
Because it shows how he is not where God needs him to be in order for him to remain my husband. I can tell you everything that I did right and wrong as a wife because I am mature enough to say that he’s not responsible for the demise of our marriage.
I feel like often time we miss the closure that we ask for because it is not how we expected it to be. I am so happy right now that I could turn a flip, not because he apologized but because his words allowed me to finally see a revelation that God has been trying to give me for over 3 years. Don’t miss it, just because it doesn’t look like how you think it should!
Isaiah 55:8-9King James Version (KJV)
8 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.”