First of all, let me say that I told y’all Tara was pregnant!!!!! I know baby weight when I see it! And Peter’s the father? Surprise Surprise!!!!
Anyway….lol
Hey loves, well you know what, that was a good intro to today’s blog: Begging a man to love you and begging him to see you. I know that I am not the only one who had to go the extra mile to show a man exactly what he had in me. In case you can’t relate yet, I will give you a few examples; Always cooking his favorite meals, Being overly there whether he asks you or not, overlooking things and situations where he shows his disrespect towards you and even overlooking his girlfriend and playing the loyal “friend” until she moves out of the way.
As women we have (normally) an abundance of love and affection to give to a man. I can’t speak for every woman, but I know that this Queen has a lot to offer. I am loyal and I will ride to the wheels fall off, I’m caring, protective, educate, brilliant, kind, strong, loving, affectionate, romantic, thoughtful and I could go on and on. lol But I bring a lot to the table and I don’t feel like I should have to compete, I feel like I should be the one and only champ.
Too many women/females allow themselves to be second strand while they wait to be chosen. It is straight Bible that “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 18) You should wait for the right man to find you but you should not wait for a man to one day realize your worth. Who dolls up to be noticed by the pauper? Through past experiences, I know that you can’t force someone to love and you can’t make them see you for who you are.
I say this to every queen reading this, you are far too amazing to have to beg anyone to see how amazing you are. In the words of Viola Davis, “You Is kind. You is smart and you is important.”
Also a wise woman told met "You are the perfect woman for the right man!" It's just a waiting game, and thats the hard part.
Your crown glimmers whether the world realizes it or not, God does!
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