Hey loves!!!! Happy Humpday!!!
Okay... Lets get to it, we all have that one person in our family or in our group of friends, whether male or female that is a real relationship hopper. Some of them go from marriage to marriage or from fiance to fiance or even from best friend to best friend etc. It really seems like they cant't get it right. Are you that person? LOL No really,are you that person?
If "No" then good, Good for you!
If "Yes" then you need to do better, much better. Every person that I meet and talk with/to, I establish a relationship with. A relationship is with a friend, a relative, a co-worker, a church member, and a significant over; they are all relationships, all different but a rose is rose.
I know several of my friends who are hopping back and forth from Tim to David and I love them to death but sometimes I want to shake them, like REALLY SHAKE THEM and tell them that there is a common denominator in all of your relationships, and thats you.
Whether an intimate relationship, platonic or friendly relationship, if you can't maintain a healthy relationship, consistently, then it it something about you or something about the people that you are attracting. I'm not going to say "you" as if I have never been the problem because I have and through prayer and the elimation or toxic relationships, I have realized where I go wrong with people.
Because I am a giving person and loyal to a fault, I attract users, people who just take,ask and beg until I say no and show them the exit. It wasn't until I was tired of being hurt that I decided to look into the mirror and evalute the common ground.
Today, I challenge you to sit back and look at the connections that you have with the people in your life. Are they healthy connections or toxic connections? You deserve the best, so detox your relationships andmake room for better!
Love ya!!!
-Queen Me